{"id":88,"date":"2021-10-27T20:23:18","date_gmt":"2021-10-27T20:23:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.sexpally.com\/blog\/?p=88"},"modified":"2025-07-07T12:16:12","modified_gmt":"2025-07-07T12:16:12","slug":"demisexuality","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sexpally.com\/blog\/demisexuality\/","title":{"rendered":"Demisexuality &#8211; Reason you don&#8217;t want to have Sex"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_86 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-custom ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title ez-toc-toggle\" style=\"cursor:pointer\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #8c233b;color:#8c233b\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #8c233b;color:#8c233b\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"#\" data-href=\"https:\/\/www.sexpally.com\/blog\/demisexuality\/#What_is_Demisexuality\" >What is Demisexuality?<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"#\" data-href=\"https:\/\/www.sexpally.com\/blog\/demisexuality\/#Demisexuality_%E2%80%93_Physical_attraction_comes_later\" >Demisexuality &#8211; Physical attraction comes later<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"#\" data-href=\"https:\/\/www.sexpally.com\/blog\/demisexuality\/#Find_out_if_you_are_demisexual\" >Find out if you are demisexual<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"#\" data-href=\"https:\/\/www.sexpally.com\/blog\/demisexuality\/#Demisexuality_%E2%80%93_Sex_is_important_but_not_everything\" >Demisexuality &#8211; Sex is important, but not everything<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_is_Demisexuality\"><\/span>What is Demisexuality?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Demisexuality is the sexual attraction that occurs only when there&#8217;s an emotional bond.<\/p>\n<p>If\u00a0you\u00a0consider\u00a0having\u00a0an\u00a0emotional\u00a0bond\u00a0as\u00a0a\u00a0prerequisite\u00a0for\u00a0sex,\u00a0then\u00a0you\u00a0are\u00a0likely\u00a0demisexual.<\/p>\n<p>Are you not feeling like having sex? Then you probably haven&#8217;t found someone you&#8217;re bonded with.<\/p>\n<p>Can&#8217;t imagine sleeping with someone you don&#8217;t have an emotional bond with? Then you are not alone with it.<\/p>\n<p>In demisexuality, it&#8217;s about having sex only with someone with whom one has built a close relationship.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\" https:\/\/www.sexpally.com\/blog\/demisexuality\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-186\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sexpally.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/What-is-demisexuality-by-sexpally.com_-1024x576.jpg\" alt=\"The meaning of demisexuality and demisexual\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.sexpally.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/What-is-demisexuality-by-sexpally.com_-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.sexpally.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/What-is-demisexuality-by-sexpally.com_-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.sexpally.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/What-is-demisexuality-by-sexpally.com_-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.sexpally.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/What-is-demisexuality-by-sexpally.com_.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Demisexuality_%E2%80%93_Physical_attraction_comes_later\"><\/span>Demisexuality &#8211; Physical attraction comes later<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Demisexuals cannot imagine having sex with a stranger and that is not because it was instilled in them or because it is a defect, it simply does not make them want to be touched more intensely.<\/p>\n<p>Physical attraction only comes when an intense bond has already been established.<\/p>\n<p>Demisexuals need an emotional bond to be able to allow intimacy and sexual intercourse.<\/p>\n<p>These\u00a0are\u00a0common\u00a0prejudices\u00a0that\u00a0demisexuals\u00a0struggle\u00a0with.\u00a0Many\u00a0do\u00a0not\u00a0even\u00a0know\u00a0that\u00a0there\u00a0is\u00a0a\u00a0term\u00a0for\u00a0their\u00a0behavior.<\/p>\n<p>So it does not mean that people are prudish, but only that a deeper basis must be built with the other person before they indulge in the desire for a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sexpally.com\/blog\/would-it-lead-to-relationship\/\">romantic relationship<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Find_out_if_you_are_demisexual\"><\/span>Find out if you are demisexual<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>If\u00a0you\u00a0answered\u00a0&#8216;no&#8217;\u00a0to\u00a0the\u00a0following\u00a0questions,\u00a0then\u00a0it\u00a0is\u00a0very\u00a0likely\u00a0that\u00a0you\u00a0are\u00a0demisexual\u00a0too.<\/p>\n<p>Then you should remember that everything is fine with you. Many people need to bond with the person before they have sex.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>How\u00a0often\u00a0do\u00a0you\u00a0find\u00a0a\u00a0stranger\u00a0attractive?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>There are clear characteristics that indicate that someone is demisexual. Especially when the crush on well-known personalities is gone.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Are you having a hard time not having sex for a long time?<\/li>\n<li>Have you ever had sex with someone you weren&#8217;t in love with?<\/li>\n<li>Is sex one of the most important issues in a relationship for you?<\/li>\n<li>Has a stranger ever made you tingle?<\/li>\n<li>Do you have sexual fantasies with strangers from time to time<\/li>\n<li>Are there any celebrities that you find extremely attractive?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Demisexuality_%E2%80%93_Sex_is_important_but_not_everything\"><\/span>Demisexuality &#8211; Sex is important, but not everything<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Demisexuals\u00a0set\u00a0their\u00a0priorities\u00a0differently.\u00a0This\u00a0means\u00a0that\u00a0they\u00a0want\u00a0to\u00a0get\u00a0to\u00a0know\u00a0a\u00a0person\u00a0and\u00a0establish\u00a0an\u00a0emotional\u00a0bond\u00a0before\u00a0opening\u00a0up\u00a0to\u00a0them\u00a0completely.<\/p>\n<p>If there is no strong bond with someone for a while, then you can safely do without sex.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, the classic spring fever doesn&#8217;t help either. However, they are not prudish or asexual because of this.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What is Demisexuality? 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