{"id":14,"date":"2022-08-30T00:20:38","date_gmt":"2022-08-30T00:20:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.sexpally.com\/blog\/?p=14"},"modified":"2025-11-26T06:50:16","modified_gmt":"2025-11-26T06:50:16","slug":"how-to-deal-with-your-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sexpally.com\/blog\/how-to-deal-with-your-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Deal with your Ex after a Breakup"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_86 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-custom ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title ez-toc-toggle\" style=\"cursor:pointer\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #8c233b;color:#8c233b\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #8c233b;color:#8c233b\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"#\" data-href=\"https:\/\/www.sexpally.com\/blog\/how-to-deal-with-your-ex\/#Reasons_your_ex_wont_let_go\" >Reasons your ex won&#8217;t let go<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"#\" data-href=\"https:\/\/www.sexpally.com\/blog\/how-to-deal-with-your-ex\/#How_to_Deal_with_you_Ex\" >How to Deal with you Ex<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"#\" data-href=\"https:\/\/www.sexpally.com\/blog\/how-to-deal-with-your-ex\/#Breakups_are_not_always_the_same\" >Breakups are not always the same<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"#\" data-href=\"https:\/\/www.sexpally.com\/blog\/how-to-deal-with-your-ex\/#How_to_deal_with_your_ex_that_dumped_you\" >How to deal with your ex that dumped you<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<p>Most times, people break up their relationships out of emotions, and without reasonable reasons.<\/p>\n<p>You need to plan a breakup well if you&#8217;ll have to so you don&#8217;t feel bad after a breakup.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s funny sometimes seeing your ex wanting you again, contacting you frequently, and not leaving you after a breakup.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes,\u00a0your ex thought\u00a0about the time you&#8217;ve spent\u00a0together\u00a0and\u00a0you\u00a0felt\u00a0bad that he\/she has dumped you.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Reasons_your_ex_wont_let_go\"><\/span>Reasons your ex won&#8217;t let go<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>That your ex is still contacting you or wanting to see you again is of two sides &#8211; regret or pity.<\/p>\n<p>If your lover had dumped you, he\/she may feel bad about the disappointment and want to make sure you don&#8217;t feel depressed so much.<\/p>\n<p>Not letting you go may also be a result of not finding a better relationship, either when the lover has dumped you or you had dumped him\/her.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.sexpally.com\/blog\/how-to-deal-with-your-ex\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-171\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sexpally.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/How-to-deal-with-your-ex-by-sexpally.com_.jpg\" alt=\"How to manage you good or bad ex\" width=\"566\" height=\"574\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.sexpally.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/How-to-deal-with-your-ex-by-sexpally.com_.jpg 493w, https:\/\/www.sexpally.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/How-to-deal-with-your-ex-by-sexpally.com_-296x300.jpg 296w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 566px) 100vw, 566px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_to_Deal_with_you_Ex\"><\/span>How to Deal with you Ex<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>There are different ways to treat your ex-girlfriend or boyfriend that dumped you or you break up with.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s either you want to deal with your ex-lover who wouldn&#8217;t let you go and want to have you again or make him\/her regret taking you for granted.<\/p>\n<p>If you or your partner is still in love after a breakup, one of you may want to reconcile and heal the broken heart.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re not interested in dating your ex again, especially when you&#8217;ve found a new lover, then, take the bold step and unfriend or unfollow the partner on all social media.<\/p>\n<p>Block his\/her contact on your phone. You can even delete your contact from his or her device before you finally separate.<\/p>\n<p>Delete or scrap any picture of your partner in your custody or return them before you finally separate, it&#8217;s difficult but you should do it with sincerity.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Breakups_are_not_always_the_same\"><\/span>Breakups are not always the same<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>There are different <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sexpally.com\/blog\/reasons-relationships-fail\/\">reasons lovers break up in a relationship<\/a>, and these reasons could impact how you deal with a breakup and your separation.<\/p>\n<p>If a lover breaks up because he\/she could not take\u00a0the\u00a0distance\u00a0between\u00a0you\u00a0anymore, you may not want to close the relationship completely.<\/p>\n<p>You may get reconnected if one gets a new job closer to the other partner&#8217;s location.<\/p>\n<p>In another way, if your ex had broken up because he\/she has found a better lover, you shouldn&#8217;t\u00a0even\u00a0get\u00a0involved\u00a0in\u00a0an\u00a0attempt\u00a0to\u00a0get\u00a0back\u00a0to him\/her.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_to_deal_with_your_ex_that_dumped_you\"><\/span>How to deal with your ex that dumped you<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>If your boyfriend (girlfriend) has jilted you and feels bad about it, the best way to deal with such an ex is to heal up your heart and accommodate a new partner.<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s no better way to deal with such an ex than to be in love again.<\/p>\n<p>Then, start a showoff of how crazy you&#8217;re with the new lover and make him\/her jealous.<\/p>\n<p>Change your wardrobe, go out and take photoshoots in new dresses. Let the new changes take effect so your ex can realize you&#8217;ve indeed moved on, and are now better with him\/her.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t be extravagant in spending because you want to impress your ex, rather try and work better, earn better and bring about changes to yourself.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Most times, people break up their relationships out of emotions, and without reasonable reasons. 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